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Choua
Super August 2017

Skipping the wedding party entrance

Choua, on May 22, 2017 at 2:05 PM

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Anybody else skipping this? I live in Wisconsin, and most weddings have the "grand march" basically the same thing as entrance except with props and such in the middle of the reception. Do you think guests will notice if I skipped this? Neither fiance and I really want to do one.

Anybody else skipping this?

I live in Wisconsin, and most weddings have the "grand march" basically the same thing as entrance except with props and such in the middle of the reception.

Do you think guests will notice if I skipped this? Neither fiance and I really want to do one.

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  • Choua
    Super August 2017
    Choua ·
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    Well I think its weird to me since grand marches are in the middle of the reception, and we don't do the first dance until after dinner for all the weddings I've been to. But it seems like most people have the first dance before dinner?

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  • mrsmack
    VIP April 2017
    mrsmack ·
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    We skipped it and I don't really think anybody cares. We did pictures with our families and BP first so they were already at the reception and the DJ just announced DH and I.

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  • Choua
    Super August 2017
    Choua ·
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    Thanks everyone, the comments make me feel better since I've been getting weird looks from people when I tell them I don't want to have a grand entrance/march!

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  • Soon2Be2017
    Super November 2017
    Soon2Be2017 ·
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    I don't think anyone will really care if you skip it.

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  • Talullah
    VIP May 2018
    Talullah ·
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    Only FH and I will be announced.

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    Yes we are skipping it. I would never even notice. I honestly couldn't care less who the wedding party is as a guest. I'm there for the bride and groom.

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  • A&L
    Master April 2017
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    We skipped that. We were introduced and went straight to the 1st dance, mother son dance and toast.

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  • Lovecat
    Expert September 2017
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    We're totally skipping it. The goal is to get FH to the cocktail hour ASAP after the ceremony, because we're having live Irish music, which was something he really wanted (he wanted it for the whole reception, actually, but I nope-d out on that one and we compromised--Irish singer for cocktails, DJ for dinner and dancing). We will just wander in, mingle and enjoy the music, then at 6PM, start the parade to the buffet. We'll do some tables after we eat, then at 7PM, cut the cake, say some thanks (that's when we'll probably recognize our BP and FH's parents--mine are both deceased), do our dance, and then open the floor for gettin' down. Cake will be served to the tables and people can eat it at their leisure. Neither of us particularly enjoy being the center of attention, and I've always found those WWF-style BP introductions cringeworthy. I don't feel the need to be announced or introduced. Presumably everyone there knows who we are Smiley smile [And I'm not changing my name, so there's no big thrill of hearing "Mr. & Mrs. Yadda-Yadda" for the first time.]

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  • Phil
    Super October 2017
    Phil ·
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    We are skipping. We're limited in the amount of time we have during the reception, so we will do without

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  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated April 2018
    Elizabeth ·
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    I've actually only been to one wedding that DID introduce the entire wedding party. All the others only introduced the bride and groom, if they did formal introductions at all.

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  • S
    Just Said Yes July 2018
    Sara ·
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    YES! Agreed
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  • B
    Just Said Yes April 2020
    Breanna ·
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    I’m glad so many people are open to skipping this. My wedding is a year 1/2 our but it popped into my head today. I personally just want people to have fun and skip the cheesy stuff. I don’t like a lot of attention on me and there will already be enough between the ceremony and first dance. 😊
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    FH doesnt want to be announced because he doesnt want the DJ messing up names and we really want minimal announcements. So I'm fine either way. I dont think it's weird to not do it.
    The wedding party is listed on our program so it's not like nobody will have zero idea who any of them are
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  • Genesis
    Dedicated August 2019
    Genesis ·
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    I wasn’t sure if it was ok to skip, but my bridal party aren’t really for it and I think it’s cheesy and awkward for everyone involved lol so we’re definitely skipping it
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    Savvy October 2019
    Sarah ·
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    I hadn’t thought about it, but after reading this thread I may suggest to my fiancé that we skip the wedding party intro. We will have a couple quick pictures with them after the ceremony, but then we’re having them go enjoy cocktail hour while my husband and I have our pictures, and cocktail hour is in the same room as dinner. So maybe just my husband and I will get announced. We also are having a small wedding (55?) and I find some of these finer details just don’t make sense for our reception.
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  • anna
    Dedicated July 2018
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    We just walked in with everyone -- but our wedding was nice and small.

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