I’d like some outside opinions to make sure I’m not crazy for being offended.
My sister is getting married later this year, I am a BM. She has a MOH and there are three of us BMs. The MOH sent a group text asking about what dates work for a shower. We all agreed on a date (after I pointed out that my sister had told me she didn’t want a shower, and the MOH was adamant that there should be one). The MOH wanted to hold it at her house. Also agreed upon. She didn’t follow up again.
I get an invitation to the shower in the mail yesterday, which reads “Hosted by (MOH) and (BM).” The other BM and my name are not listed as hosts.
I’m really upset that they cut me and the other BM out of planning. This is supposed to be a group effort. The MOH says that she didn’t exclude anyone and she welcomes any ideas/contributions, and that the other BM had offered to make and send the invitations(which was obviously discussed outside the group text). The other left-out BM is upset too. I feel like they’re super rude. Am I wrong for being offended?
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