Hello Everyone,
I am getting married in about a month and my sister just told me today that she is pregnant with her second child. I am very happy for her and congratulated her. She said they aren't planning on telling people until November and that she was originally planning on conceiving in May but 'got her math wrong'.
The problem is, we are not that close and don't have a great relationship. She is a bridesmaid out of obligation but she is 3 years younger than me and always has to be the center of attention. Anytime I had an event that focused on me (i.e. birthday, graduation), she would do something to get attention or she would be extremely mean to me because she was upset she wasn't getting the attention. I don't really like being the center of attention but for my wedding, I am actually excited about it.
With that being said, I've talked with my MOH, fiancee and my support system and we have decided that it would be best if the extended family knew she was pregnant before the wedding, so it's not 'new news.' With my sister's track record of making herself the center of attention, I don't believe she will wait until November to tell people she is pregnant and would like to use my wedding for that occasion. My wedding is not very big, and only 7 family members are attending. So it's not like she would have to do an announcement, just let those 7 people know before the wedding.
Thoughts?