I recently got engaged and we finally settled on a date!! while all of this is so exciting I am having problems with my sweet sister being overbearing. I have already let her know that while she won't be the maid of honor she will still have a major part in the wedding. I love her and want her apart of our special day. She has a tendency to go overboard and is already trying to put her opinion in on things like where we should get married and what the bridesmaids should wear and even the bachelorette party/ rehearsal dinner which is TWO years away. What did y'all do in this situation and how can I settle this without hurting her feelings!!
TIA