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Just Said Yes October 2021

Sister in law

Samantha, on March 20, 2021 at 6:51 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

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What do you do when you asked your sister in law to be a bridesmaid out it being the formal thing to do. And now she’s the worst bridesmaid ever and makes everything about her. She didn’t care we had to post pone the wedding. She also cause a lot other family issues not related to the wedding. My fiancé doesn’t want her up in our wedding party anymore, and I agree with him. How do I tell her this? Without her being a B and holding my nephew over my head like she has done in the past.

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Latest activity by Michelle, on March 20, 2021 at 11:13 PM

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Michelle · on March 20, 2021 at 6:57 PM
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There are countless posts such ss this saying why you don't ask family or anyone else out of obligation. When it backfires, you're stuck. You can ask your fiance to talk to her but be prepared for a rift between you and her as long as you are married unless you don't mind going no contact.
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Katie · on March 20, 2021 at 7:10 PM
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Hi Samantha, so sorry you’re dealing with this. Is it possible for you and your fiancé to speak with her mom or dad? Perhaps a parent can pull her privately aside and explain to her to straighten up? Give her the ole “if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all” chat. Hope this maybe a viable option for you ❤️
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Samantha · on March 20, 2021 at 7:31 PM
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She is my brothers wife. She does listen to my dad so maybe I can try that option! Thank you 😊
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Michelle · on March 20, 2021 at 10:02 PM
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Hopefully your dad can talk some sense into her! Good luck beautiful!
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Fred · on March 20, 2021 at 10:50 PM
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But ... Who's paying for the wedding and who's contributing?
If you and your partner are paying for 100% ,nobody else gets a say.Since you and partner don't want her to be in the WP anymore, just kick her out politely and explain the reason why you don't want her anymore.
If your parents are paying or contributing and want her to be in it or you're afraid of future backlash or a strained relationship with her or you bro , it's another story but it doesn't mean they have the power to keep her in it.
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Michelle · on March 20, 2021 at 11:13 PM
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Agree with this
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