So my wedding was about 2 weeks ago. Not much went wrong, but we did have a few incidents with my now sister in law. I have tried so hard to get along with her since I started seeing my now husband. At the gift opening the next day, my SIL insulted my best friend who was my MOH. My MOH is currently pregnant, not showing yet but they have been trying for a few months and are super thrilled about this. When my SIL found out my MOH was pregnant, she sniped "well that was fast" (my MOH and her husband have been married just about a year). I didn't find that comment necessary, but I didn't say anything. My SIL's husband did though when she said and told her that was unnecessary. That led to a big fight during the gift opening between them. My mom was shocked by the behavior.
Now that I have been thinking the last few weeks about the wedding, I realized my sister in law is the only one who didn't say anything like "welcome to the family", "so happy that you are joining our family" or anything of the sort. A lot of my husband's family couldn't attend due to travel bans, but a bunch of his cousins posted things on each mine and my husband's facebook pages or messaged us.
I also found out from one of my husband's friends that she was talking about how much I was drinking that night, what she didn't realize is that I had 2 glasses of white wine then switched to sprite because my stomach was acting up. I'm guessing she assumed that the sprite had vodka in it, but I think with everything going on my stomach started to not feel good so I just drank plain sprite the rest of the night.
I'm trying to let it go, my husband and his sister already have a rocky relationship as it is. So while I'm able to vent to him and talk to him about this issue, I also don't want to cause any problems. But this is bugging me and I don't know what to do. I'm still somewhat hurt about the whole not be welcoming and talking behind my back. Which is not something I'm use to, my friends and I aren't like that.