Quick question for y’all. I am getting married in May 2022 and I would like your input in this situation. My sister is a bridesmaid (my initial plan wasn’t to include her however my fiancé thought it was a good idea). We are cordially and friendly to each other but we are two separate walks of life. Long story short, I am planning the bachelorette party or at least trying to gather a good group right now.
I don’t want to go on a 3 day drink binger however I do know that when she drinks. She isn’t fun. At all. She’s either falling asleep in public settings, runs off somewhere or starts an argument with anyone. This isn’t a one time thing - it has happened several times. I’d like to think I’m a very caring person but I wouldn’t want that stress on myself or anyone else (babysitting someone who gets inebriated). Is it rude of me to not invite her to the bachelorette?
P.S our wedding will be open bar and I will cap her to a max of 3 drinks. Her and her plus one 🥴