Fiance's brother's wife recently shared that she and her 2 kids will not be coming to our winter wedding. She says that her new (fully remote/WFH) job that she hasn't even started yet (they hired her mid-summer with a late fall start date) won't allow her to be quarantined for 2 weeks after travel (they live in Europe, apparently there's a 2 week quarantine following travel to the US) so she and her children can't come. (I don't quite follow this logic, but since she hasn't actually communicated with anyone directly - just her husband having a call with FH, it's hard to understand how a WFH job cares if you need to quarantine at home...).
We aren't close, but I did try to reach out to both her and her husband to say how sad it is that she and the kids won't be coming to the wedding and convey how much they will be missed - but neither of them ever responded to my message.
Is it just me or is this all a pretty major slap in the face? Her husband is the best man in our wedding that she's known about for 6 months+ before even applying for this fully remote job... and yet she just RSVP'd no without even talking to either me or FH (or responding to communication about it)? Do I do anything further to reach out or just forget about it? Is this normal behavior and I'm just being overly sensitive? Ack!
(Also, we had made their 2 children the only exception to our otherwise child-free wedding, so that fairly common drama isn't even on the table).