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sil is a bridesmaid but we don't want her at the bachelorette party/weekend

Molly, on December 3, 2024 at 7:40 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 1

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Hi all,

I am the MOH in a wedding, and the bride doesn't want her SIL at the bachelorette weekend. They are good friends and have no issues with each other which is why she is still a part of the wedding party. The worry is that she is younger and less mature, so if lingerie or sex comes up, she would be very awkward. What advice can I give the bride to handle this situation?

Is it tacky to say they can enjoy one-on-one time separate from this weekend to bond and hang out? Nails and lunch date?

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Latest activity by JA, on December 23, 2024 at 8:31 PM

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JA · on December 23, 2024 at 8:31 PM
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Excluding a bridesmaid from any wedding activity is probably the rudest thing I can think of. Put one of the other bridesmaids on "sister duty" and if she is causing any issues ask that bridesmaid to calmly deal with it. If its just that she may feel awkward then she can always say something or leave the conversation herself. There's no reason to purposefully exclude her from the whole trip.
If you absolutely have to talk about "lingerie and sex" and feel like it can't come up in front of the sister then y'all need to have a seperate get together for that.
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