My flower girl is older and is a size 16 in girls. I was wanted her to have a deep purple dress, I am having the HARDEST time finding a deep purple dress that goes past 14 and isn't more than $75. Her mom can't afford to buy a dress that is more expensive and frankly I don't blame her. She also won't let me pay for it. I am thinking maybe now it would be better to have her in ivory like me? Do they need to be similar in fabric to the bridal party? What did yours wear?