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Just Said Yes November 2018

Should she be my bridesmaid?

Hannah, on March 28, 2018 at 7:57 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 3

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I pretty much have my bridal party picked out except I’m not 100% on one girl. She’s been my friend for a long time but she wasn’t there for me during a hard time of mine because she was feeling her own stuff. But I’m not confident I can trust her with the hard stuff in the future. She’s in my small group of friends and friends with my fiancé. But she hasn’t always been super supportive of our relationship because of spirituality stuff. I know she would bring a lot of fun and ease to the wedding party and she would fit in perfectly but she hasn’t always been the best friend. What should I do?

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Latest activity by Mrs Abbey, on April 2, 2018 at 3:54 PM

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Soon to be Wentz · on March 29, 2018 at 8:47 AM
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I had a friend who I wasn't 100% on either. I've known her for 12 years, and I was all set to ask her, with a box and wine and a poem, but she did the thing that makes her not-so-great and I'm so glad I didn't ask her now. If she were in the party, the few things that are All About the Bride would turn into me stressing about this bridesmaid. You'll have fun without her as a bridesmaid, and if you want to include her in the wedding there are other positions than bridesmaid!
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Lynnie · on April 2, 2018 at 3:48 PM
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That's a tough call! Do you think she would be upset if she wasn't in the wedding party? Your bridesmaids should definitely be the people you can't picture getting married without!
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Mrs Abbey · on April 2, 2018 at 3:54 PM
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I was on the fence about my best friend. Her and I have been friends for 13 years. However, it just felt more one sided. I felt like I was always there for her but she wasn't there for me. I finally just asked her and things were a bit of a struggle for her because she is a single mom. I helped with her daughters dress so she could be my flower girl. At the end of the day I am thankful I had her by my side.
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