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Should i put friend's girlfriend on Save the Date?

Tori, on September 5, 2018 at 9:11 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

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They've been together for five months. His mom is my wedding planner. He's never really been in a super long term relationship, but she seems solid. Because it's a Save the Date I'm not doing and guest on them. But I don't want to be rude and not include her name since I know they've been a couple for awhile. Advice?

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Latest activity by MrsD, on September 6, 2018 at 11:56 AM

Just Said Yes May 2020
Robbyn · on September 5, 2018 at 9:15 PM
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I wouldn't. How awk would it be if they break up and he bring another date!?!
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Master November 2019
Mrs. S · on September 5, 2018 at 9:19 PM
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I would just put his name at this point
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Expert September 2018
Jody · on September 5, 2018 at 9:24 PM
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I’d say just his name for the save the date. You can add her name if they are still dating at the time you send out invites.
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Kayla · on September 5, 2018 at 9:30 PM
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Yeah especially if they aren’t living together it’s no need to put her name on it!
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Expert October 2018
Erin · on September 5, 2018 at 9:31 PM
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I wouldn't. It goes to the main guest's name. I didn't include girlfriends or boyfriends unless they lived together.
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Devoted March 2019
Tori · on September 5, 2018 at 9:46 PM
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Thanks everyone!
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MrsD · on September 6, 2018 at 11:56 AM
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We aren't addressing anyone for "plus ones". We are addressing couples as their names, and if they break up we won't invite the half we weren't friends with first (unless we've become equally as good of friends with both people).
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