My MOH lives with my godsister. Also in the house is my godsister's young son, her mother, two younger sisters, and her brother. I love my godsister, however I've not put her on my guest list for several reasons. One, we don't really talk much anymore. We just don't. Could be the distance, could be something else. I don't know.
One thing is for sure. I wouldn't mind inviting my Godsister, her brother, her son and her two youngest sisters but I have a major issue with her mom. Her mom has known me for my entire life and our relationship has always been somewhat strained. In 2016, my MOH took my daughter to her house at the time for the weekend, and my daughter came back with a huge bump on her head (this was the second time that happened while at that house). When I was talking on the phone with my MOH about how my daughter got the bump on her head, I could hear my godsister's mom LAUGHING at the situation. Saying "Are they really angry about that? It isn't a big deal. It isn't really that big of a bump." My daughter was BARELY 2 at the time. The bump was enourmous and I had to explain to her daycare how she got that bump. When I heard the woman laughing at my daughter, I blocked her on all social media accounts, deleted her phone number and have not spoken to her since. My MOH UNFORTUNATELY still lives with them. So I hope you guys can understand why I don't know if I should invite my godsister and her household. I can't stand her mom and her presence would be a disturbance for me. After how she treated our child and the situation, I can't have someone like that around. I just wish they all didn't live in the same house. So, I don't mind inviting the above mentioned people EXCEPT their mom. We both loathe her. Should I just let it go and not invite any of them? What do you think?
