Should i Invite a New Co-worker?

At my previous job a co-worker was getting married a few weeks after I started.. the whole office was invited prior to my arrival and a group went. I was not invited. It crossed my mind for a split second on whether or not I would be invited, but in the end I was glad I wasn't.. I didn't know her. Weddings are expensive. And I likely wouldn't have gone given we had just met.. two years later we are best friends though!

I wouldn't invite her. She just started working there and you're already over count, not to mention your wedding is in just a couple of weeks. If she gets offended and takes it personally, that's not on you.

I would keep your guest list as-is. I think she'll understand there's not much you can do this late in the planning!

No. Don't feel obligated to just because they're there. They're soooo new it's a bit odd to. But that's really nice of you to not want them to feel left out. I had a new coworker come in February and my wedding was in June. I decided to because i figured that was still quite a bit of time to get to know one another and I also invited all coworkers.

I think she'll understand! I wouldn't invite her!

I wouldnt. Like you said, you dont really know her and it's just too close to offer her an invite especially if you're over numbers!

No! You’re getting married in two weeks. Stop second guessing yourself!

I think it's fine not to invite her!

You have no obligation to invite her. Furthermore you don't even have to explain why she isn't invited. You are getting married in 2 weeks and you don't know her. That's it.

Being so new, she probably doesn't expect to be invited. I wouldn't invite her. You're already over, and you barely know her. It's nice that your coworkers are including her in the celebration (I'm assuming so she won't feel left out). She won't be offended.

Thanks for the advice everyone!

I agree with not inviting her. You just met her, and certainly don’t owe her an invite. She should not expect one either. I honestly find it odd she was invited in the first place to your party, but that’s just my opinion!