So I have decided to do a commitment ceremony for my grandmother who is ill. Its in december and im hoping my grandmother is still with us by then. The problem is i live a plane ride away from my family and its gonna be 1300 to just fly there. This is most of our savings and the rest of our life's savings is being spent on this ceremony. This is it being done as cheaply as possible and only 16 in the guest list.
My partner is not the sentimental type but is not against it either. He is concerned about us spending all our money on a last minute ceremony. Now im having second thoughts about this and wonder if I should call things off before we actually spend the money. What are your thoughts?
