FH's parents and my own agreed to contribute 1/4 of the wedding costs towards our special day. My parents have thus far sent us half of what they're contributing, with more coming closer to the wedding.
When FH's parents asked a few months ago when we needed money, I said that everything would need to be paid in full by November but that it may be easier for them to send us some money earlier on (like my parents did) so it is not all sent at once.
Since that conversation, we haven't yet received anything from FH's parents and when I asked FH last week to ask his parents to send over a portion of their contribution (we have a $5000 payment due soon) they reached out to me to ask how much we need.
At this point I am not actually sure if they still plan on contributing the original amount to the wedding (if any) given what has happened to date. We can afford to pay for it ourselves without them but I'm a little lost as to what is happening with it.
Should I ask my future in-laws whether or not they're still ok with contributing the $X they said they would? I just want a little clarity to confirm what is happening.
