Long story short: my sister and parents got into an argument back in May and haven't talked since. On Saturday, I threw FH a birthday party and invited everyone.
Dad was not happy, cussed me out and said a bunch of nasty things to me in front of all my soon to be in laws all because my sister was at the party (she did not look or speak to him)
I'm afraid that this is just a sneak peek of what is to come on my wedding day, and honestly I can't handle the thought of that. So I have been thinking about cancelling everything and eloping. I just cant imagine having spent all that money, time and effort to end in something similar. I also cant NOT invite him as it would make for a bigger show with people asking me why my father isn't at my wedding,
I would be losing about 700 in deposits and no one has made any accommodations so it should be ok. I did set the day at the church, but I would figure something out with them.
What would you guys do?