Should i be asking more questions of my bride?

Hello everyone! I am in need of some help. I am the MOH in my best friends wedding next year. Hers is in the spring/early summer. The issue I am coming up too is she hasn't given me a lot of information about what she wants to do or if she needs help with anything. In the months after she first asked me to be her MOH, I talked to her often about things she could do, vendors to call and talk to, and tried to get a overall idea of what she needed and it caused an argument that she felt stressed about cost of the wedding and that the advice I was giving her was something she couldn't afford. So I apologized and backed off. But now we are less than a year from her wedding and she hasn't really talked about it at all to me or the other bridesmaid. I'm getting worried that she might miss out on booking vendors or getting things she wants if she waits too long and I don't want her to be sad or disappointed on her wedding day. So should I start talking to her more about it or should I just stay back and wait for her?


Note: for alittle additional context, I am getting married later the same year as here. I am a planner and have most of my wedding already booked and planned a year out almost. She is not much of a planner normally. Thank you everyone in advance!