My fiance has more GMs than I do and I understand it's totally fine to have uneven sides but there are some gfs that I'm considering asking but not 100% sure. Any thoughts?
Friend A) We were very close in college and was there for each other alot. Afterwards, we moved to different coasts and grew apart. We barely saw or spoke to each other for a few years. Recently we connected again and feel like we were just like before and has been talking alot more since. She's still far away but we've been talking on the phone and text.
Friend B) We met through a mutual friend many years ago and have always been pretty good friends, but not like bff's. I was a bridesmaid for her at her destination wedding but she basically made many of her gfs BMs who could make it to that wedding. I feel like if she had a wedding locally she may or may not have picked me as a BM. We hangout once every month or so and live in the same city.
Should I ask either? Both?
