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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Short or Long First Dance?

Lynnie, on April 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Wedding Reception 139

How long will your first dance be? Are you going to enjoy every minute and dance for the full length of the song? Or are you cutting it down and fading out the song early? Photo from Twisted Ranch Weddings in Bertram, TX Next Question: Short or Long List of Addresses You Still Need? Back to the...

How long will your first dance be? Are you going to enjoy every minute and dance for the full length of the song? Or are you cutting it down and fading out the song early?


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Photo from Twisted Ranch Weddings in Bertram, TX



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139 Comments

  • Danielle
    Expert March 2019
    Danielle ·
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    Our song was only 2:30 so we did the whole thing, but we had a choreographed dance, so it wasn't just watching us sway the whole time.

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  • Simone
    Savvy October 2020
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    Short. I’m nervous now thinking about it lol
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  • Michelle
    Expert March 2020
    Michelle ·
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    Short so we can start the dancing with our loved ones!!!
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  • Fenja
    VIP August 2021
    Fenja ·
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    Long! Around four minutes. But we might cut it short or let people join!

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  • Brittany
    Dedicated December 2021
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    Well the song is about 4 and a half minutes, I considered cutting it but since this will be one of the few just us moments during the reception I think we’ll let it play.
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  • Janae
    Dedicated April 2021
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    Short slow dancing is not my thing lol
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    We're going to dance to the whole song, but I think about halfway through, we'll have the DJ invite everyone on to the dance floor to join us. Otherwise, it's just awkward, dancing there while everyone stares at us.

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  • Kaylie
    Savvy October 2021
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    Probably a bit shorter!

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  • DyaShae
    Beginner March 2020
    DyaShae ·
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    Long. We're dancing the entire length of the song!
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  • GabbiV
    Dedicated October 2019
    GabbiV ·
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    Short! We're not doing a performance or anything and too long might be a bit awkward for both us and the guest!

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  • Elizabeth
    Savvy August 2020
    Elizabeth ·
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    I know this is sappy, but I would love it if my song was longer. I'm really happy with the song we chose, but it's just shy of 3 minutes. I'm really excited for our dance.. but then when I think about it, I'm exciting for all the dancing in general!

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  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    Short. I don't want that much time people just staring at us.

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  • Samantha
    Savvy March 2020
    Samantha ·
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    Were doing the whole song so it's about 3 mins.
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  • BecomingBecker
    Dedicated October 2020
    BecomingBecker ·
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    3 minute song...not sure if that is short or long lol

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  • D
    Savvy May 2019
    David ·
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    Pro Tip: Anything longer than 2 minutes will feel like an eternity.

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  • Mrs.
    Super May 2019
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    We haven't decided but I think shorter than the full song, but probably longer than our parent dances.

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  • Whitney
    Savvy September 2020
    Whitney ·
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    I'm going for short. People tend to lose focus if it's not choreographed.

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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
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    I hadn't really thought of that...was just planning on dancing for the whole song, but I guess I'll see how long it actually is.

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  • Lexi
    Dedicated August 2020
    Lexi ·
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    W are doing the full song Smiley smile Our first dance is to Never Stop (Wedding Version) by safteysuit

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  • L
    Expert June 2019
    Lori ·
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    Long, full length song
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