Let me start out by saying that I wear a size 5 usually in women's. I have been known to own size 2 boy's shoes and wear them, so let's just say I have very small feet. I got caught up in the wedding fever and bought these ridiculously sparkly heels for $14 on clearance because they were my size and because they were cheap - and they don't go with my dress at all.
I am also 4'9" so there's no danger of me being taller than my FH (who's 5'6" or something like that) but I'm also clumsy and don't want to fall on my face and die, so let's stay under 2.5" inches, preferably 2 inches. I'm gettting married in a church. There is some outdoor space, but most of it has gravel or paving stone, so I'm not worried about grass.
My wedding's in October, so I'd like to stay away from sandals. I don't even really want a peep toe but I'll get over it. I like Mary Janes and t straps but I'm not going 50's vintage for my wedding so those don't really seem to fit. I'm trying to go for classic, timeless, romantic, with a touch of old book nerd.
Here's my dress and a picture of my flower girl and bridesmaid's dresses:
Fabric of flower girl and bridesmaid dress
close up of the lace detail and also look at my waist 
please excuse my oh my god I just got engaged two weeks ago and now I'm buying a dress face
back of my dress
My veil: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B008NE2RB0/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o02_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
My headpiece
The most comfortable pair of heels I own are a nude pair of these:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B074TWXK2H/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1
If I could get them in white, I would, but they're out of stock.
Would lacey Mary Janes be too much? Like the ones that tie with the ribbons in the middle? Plain white be too boring? I wanted blue to match my girls but I can't get anything dyed steel blue to match them. I really don't want to spend more than $50ish. Thoughts?
