I am struggling to decide on shoes. I found a pair that are right around 3" block heel. While they are gorgeous and go perfectly with my dress I know 20 secs in I am going to be miserable. I am about to start the alterations process so I trying to rethink my shoe Idea. I am also taller than my fiance in flats so adding heels will just make me that much taller which he doesnt really care but....