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JML
Dedicated July 2016

Shoe Game

JML, on April 11, 2016 at 8:28 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 39

I've seen multiple videos online about the infamous Shoe Game that goes on at weddings. It usually serves as a good entertainment factor. I've been informed that the questions can be on each table and the Emcee will help along with it. Lately, I've been editing my wedding timeline and was wondering how much time should I allot for the game if we decide to do it. Also, what part of the reception does this come before or after? And how many questions should be our max out? If you aren't sure what it is, you can google it or find it on youtube.

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Latest activity by Sqwiggy, on April 12, 2016 at 2:53 PM
  • Marleen P
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    Marleen P ·
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    We are doing the shoe game. Im following this post.

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  • MrsPettit
    Super May 2016
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    I really wouldn't make it longer than 10-15 questions. After that I think it would lose its novelty and people would check out. So -- maybe 10 minutes on your timeline to account for laughter/applause?

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  • Celia Milton
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    Don't make adults play games at your wedding.

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  • JML
    Dedicated July 2016
    JML ·
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    That makes sense, 10 minutes sounds good but not overdone. Someone suggested that I leave a question card on each table, there will be around 200 people so it will be twenty tables. I thought maybe just doing questions from the bridal party (bm and gm), how does that sound?

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  • JML
    Dedicated July 2016
    JML ·
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    @celia, do you have any idea what it is? It's a game involving the bride and groom. The guests aren't playing Simon Says. It's not checkers or uno.

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  • Mrs. Knolle
    Master July 2016
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    Never heard of this.

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  • Angela
    Super June 2016
    Angela ·
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    No more than 10 minutes.

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  • FallforLindahl
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    Following! It looks like so much fun!!

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  • NowASeptMrs
    Master September 2015
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    We did it! It was really fun. We did 10 questions. Make sure you have a good MC otherwise it's really boring!

    The premise of the game is the bride has her shoe and one of the grooms and the groom has his and one of the brides. The MC asks questions and whomever is the correct answer, you raise their shoe. Like "who wears the pants in the relationship?"

    I would make sure they preview he questions before. I went to one wedding where one funny one was "who is Better in bed?" ... For some crowds that might be hilarious. For others embarrassing. Make sure you knew the questions and your crowd to avoid awkward moments.

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  • amytherese
    Super July 2016
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    Definitely keep it short and make sure your dj has done this before.

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  • JML
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    JML ·
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    @nowaseptmrs How early did you guys do it? After all the dances?

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  • Private User
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    We had a he said-she said game, at my bridal shower. My social circle is too busy eating, dancing, and socializing, at weddings, to play games.

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  • Finally Mrs. F
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    We did this. I was concerned how it would go over, but I had fun with it hehe. I typically wouldn't suggest games but we weren't doing the garter/bouquet thing and wanted something. We had the DJ "play" this towards the end of the reception when things were winding down, I think guests were eating cake. He lowered the music and put the chairs out, then when the game was over he turned the music up and dancing resumed. Edit: stupid spelling


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  • Nichelle
    Dedicated June 2016
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    I'm following this post too. I'm planning a beach destination wedding for a small intimate crowd of 20. We are looking for ways to entertain everyone and I think this will be a great idea.

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  • Emily O.
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    I can't think of anyone coming to our wedding who would want to watch FH and I play a game just the two of us. If you want to have games at your wedding, you might as well have a game show theme. IMHO games are for showers and bachelorettes, not weddings. It's tacky.

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  • Celia Milton
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    Yes. I do know what it is. I don't honestly know why it would be necessary.

    Drink,,,,eat,,,,,dance.....repeat as necessary.

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  • AMW
    Master September 2016
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    @Nichelle--- you don't need to do entertainment beyond giving them really good food and really good drinks. Add dancing if you want people to stick around for longer (or leave quickly like my FH and I would, haha).

    OP, I wouldn't do more than ten minutes. As a guest I can see it being cute for about three minutes, and then incredibly boring as you can't participate, you just have to watch. Kind of like long first dances---super boring for guests.

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  • JML
    Dedicated July 2016
    JML ·
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    Its going to take at most 10 minutes, I don't see the harm in a couple of laughs during down time like while they are eating cake.

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  • Julie
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    At a shower, ok. At a wedding, not my thing. Guests don't need the extra "entertainment" and all eyes will be on you two all night anyways. I'd put it up there with toasts. Sure guests will politely listen but it's really about the food, drinks, dancing, and celebrating.

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  • Chuck Johnson
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    Everyone keeps saying 10 minutes... No!

    10 QUESTIONS. That's it. Short and sweet. I have done this many times and I promise you, it's *always* a hit. BUT after 3 minutes (about 10 questions), it gets too long, for reals. Smiley smile

    Hope this helps!

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