Shoe Game Questions

There's a few lists online I believe. I wouldn't ask any embarrassing questions or any that could maybe make you or your partner look bad. For example: my FH is the one who mainly cleans. I wouldn't like it if the questions was "who is the messiest?" and he put my shoe up.

This is a game for a shower or bach party, not a wedding. It makes guests incredibly uncomfortable.

I would reconsider this idea. It’s very awkward for guests.

Agree with other PP's. I'm definitely not a fan of sitting at my table watching games at a wedding - I want to be up drinking and dancing. This is more for a shower, and even that I would consider to be uncomfortable and unnecessary.

Funny how OP asked for questions for the game and people comment on how she need to rethink HER decision (and no answers to her question).

I agree with checking the web, I saw a couple of list, But the dilemma is do you really want to know the questions prior to the game. I would give the job to a close friend and tell them nothing to personal.

I am not having a bridal shower, and I will
not be at his bachelor party and he will not be at my bachelorette party, so I don’t know how else to do it. I have only ever see it done at the reception and guests seemed to love it.
I understand no personal or embarrassing questions. I also like the idea of someone else thinking of questions, so thank you all.

@2018wedding, we don't have to answer the question if the premise is uncomfortable. Watching people play games at a wedding reception isn't really that fun.

I did that game and the guests were all asked to come up with questions. The kids had the funniest ones.

Oh and to this that said it was awkward, for us it wasn't. Everyone laughed histerically.

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The premise is uncomfortable....okay. It may not be fun to you. But that wasn't not her question.

I understand letting her know some may not like it, but at least answer her question.

I dont like donuts at wedding and if a post comes up asking where to get donuts.. I keep scrolling vs just commenting my dislike for donuts at weddings or how they dont belong there...

different strokes for different folks

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That isn't how a message board works, though. Anyone can say their opinion, because our opinions are likely to be similar to a guest's opinion

I am excited to be planning to play the shoe game at my wedding too! I agree with 2018wedding that I do not want to know the questions ahead of time so my sister will be making the question list for me

We did this at our engagements. I think maybe do it for your shower?

We did it at our wedding and I was hesitant but DH insisted. I think it’s a know your crowd. We only had 55 people (all family and close friends). They all got a kick out of it and everyone was cracking it up. If we had had s large Wedding with people we both didn’t know so well it would have been awkward.

Our DJ came up with the questions which was fine with us (DJ has done all family parties/weddings for last 20 years so we knew he wouldn’t have embarrassing questions). Trying to remember some of them.... who’s the better driver? Who’s the better cook? Ones like that.