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Margarie
Dedicated October 2027

Shh it’s a secret.

Margarie, on July 7, 2020 at 5:19 PM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 29

I am bursting at the seams. We didn’t tell anyone with the exception of one person each and not family. We snuck away and eloped on Sunday! Our wedding became so stressful with family adding extra guests etc we wanted something just for us so we did it! We will still have our ceremony and reception...
I am bursting at the seams. We didn’t tell anyone with the exception of one person each and not family. We snuck away and eloped on Sunday! Our wedding became so stressful with family adding extra guests etc we wanted something just for us so we did it! We will still have our ceremony and reception in September but this just felt so right. We send each other messages saying I love you Wife, I love you Husband it’s the best.cfb_1406847.jpg

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  • Margarie
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    Thank you so much 😊
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  • Margarie
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    Thank yo so much 😊 we are a bit on the fence as to when we will share. Rather we will just let them think September 4th our actual ceremony and reception is the date and keep this just for us or if we will mention it in waves to family and friends right now we are just enjoying this special feeling of just us.
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  • Danielle
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    Congratulations!!!!

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  • Margarie
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    Thank you so much 😊
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  • Aimee
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    Congratulations! Small intimate weddings are sweet.
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  • Marcia
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    It is hurtful to your familu and friends to mislead them to think they are at your ceremony instead of a vow renewal. Please don't do this. You need to tell tjem before the big event
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  • Katie
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    Congratulations. I'm glad you guys were able to have a great stress-free day.
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  • Margarie
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    Marcia it is not about everyone else at this point nor is it hurtful some things are meant to be between the two people that this love depends on and getting us through the best way we could at the time to keep our wedding and vision all about us even remotely about what we wanted in the first place we made all these changes to not be "hurtful" of adding all of these extra friends and family it was time to get back to us and that's what we did. Keeping a secret is in now ways misleading if we ever decide to tell it is our choice as we are the two in this marriage if we don't again it is our choice as we are the two in this marriage. After still being invited to an event to express our love and dedication next year in which they are required to pay for nothing except transportation to get there for a full weekend and someone feels the need to feel mislead because we had to do what was best for the two of us so be it.

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  • Margarie
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    We were going to do it in staggered groups but my MOH and my Mom told everyone already 😩 not mad at them they’re just happy for us🥰
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