My restaurant reception venue includes cake for desert...a sheetcake cut in the kitchen and served to each guest. Its a great deal and also includes appetizers. We would like to have a mini cake to cut so my DF gets to have the whole shabang (its his first marriage). So, my question is, how do we do that so its not weird? I mean should we cut our little fancy cake first and then have them serve the guests or vice versa? Our cake will be in front of us at the table we are seated at. Having 35-40 guests all sitting at a U shape table, and !we will be in the middle of the short part. I feel kinda weird cutting and eating a fancy little cake while my guests eat basic yellow cake. What are your thoughts or how did you do it? Its a little different than having a bigcake sitting in the corner with its own table etc. No room for that in my restaurant reception room