Sharing your wedding with another couple

I wouldn't want to. Not to be selfish but it's about you as a couple, not a charity case...it sounds selfish when I say it, but I wouldn't want to encroach on another couple's wedding, it would be incredibly awkward

That's sweet of him and I'm sure he means well...buuuuuuut hard no on this one. IMO, weddings are not a thing to be shared with anyone but your OWN family and friends.

No. No way.

It's very sweet, but does he even know if that couple wants this? Maybe they had the wedding they wanted and simply by asking, you'll be insulting them...sort of telling them their wedding was so bad that they should share yours.

Also, put yourself in their shoes. Say you didn't get your wedding, but would you really want someone else saying "Crash ours"? Wouldn't that make you feel awkward?

I don't think I would like that idea. Nice gesture

Nope, no, nah... you get my point, they can have there day another day....

Even doing a small gesture could backfire, what if they start making the whole thing about them? What if you let them be there and share some moments, but now they think they get a say in your decisions?

It sounds like maybe FH said this because he thinks it would be nice, but hasn't thought through the logistics.

As has been mentioned, there's the actual cost of having more guests. Plus confusion over unmarked gifts, etc.

Naive but sweet. Terrible idea. Your church as a whole could do something for them.

That doesn't make sense unless you share family and friends.

Definite no from me. Sweet, but noooo.

Your husband is so sweet, but NO!

No wayyyyy

No. This is a bad idea. Someone is going to end up paying more. Weddings are about a couple, ONE couple!

Umm no thanks! Sounds like your FH has a big heart BUT no way!

Nope

Nope. Super nice of him. But no.

Very nice of him but I wouldn't do it as it can be stressful and complicate things.

Absolutely not.

I would say no b/c this couple could take over your wedding and take advantage of your good heartedness.

It's a really really sweet idea, but I don't think I would ever do it. I would probably give it a little more thought if it were a family member, but even still, I would probably take a pass on that one.