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Lindsey
Dedicated August 2018

Sharing wedding photos when you get them

Lindsey, on October 5, 2018 at 3:56 PM Posted in Planning 0 3

We got married 55 days ago. I got my photos back from our photographer and now is the time to share them!

I LOVE LOVE our photos but I don't know how to go about how to share them with family, bridal party and on social media because I haven't posted or talked much about our wedding with people. I didn't post any of our photobooth photos, photos guests uploaded to the Veri app (guest photo collection app) on social media and I could have posted those the day after our wedding because I had them.

To be honest, I had experienced post wedding depression after our wedding and I'm still struggling with it today. I won't go into a lot of details but I've kinda distanced myself from people that have hurt me.

I want to know the proper etiquette of how people go about sharing wedding photos with people. Do you post them to social media or do you need to reach out to your family & bridal party via email with a link to the gallery first?

We also had a videographer, but the video isn't done yet.



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Latest activity by Rebecca, on October 8, 2018 at 12:45 PM
  • Casey
    VIP December 2018
    Casey ·
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    I don't think there is really an etiquette around it - of course it is probably nice to share with nearest and dearest first but it totally depends on your style and relationship with social media! We leave for a 12 day cruise (without internet access) right after our wedding and our photographers like to get photos up ASAP and a main wedding blog with their favorites up within a week, so our photos will automatically be posted on social media, likely before we even get to see them!

    I am so sorry you are dealing with depression since your wedding. I hope everything is alright. Definitely know if you want to share or need people to vent to, we are here for you!

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  • Kristen
    VIP August 2018
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    I just posted my favorites on social media and people saw them that way. And for close friends and parents I gave them the link to the online gallery.

    For christmas we are going to gift our moms albums

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
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    Hi there Lindsey,

    I'm very sorry to hear that you've been experiencing some post-wedding depression. I know that a lot of our community members experience the same after their wedding. I understand how hard it is.

    As Casey said, I don't believe there is really an etiquette for sharing wedding photos! I think it's very much a personal choice. If it were me, I'd maybe first share the photos with those who are closest to me - my family, friends, and wedding party. Just because I'm not a big social media user, I'd maybe upload a couple of photos to my social media accounts, but not all of them! That's just my personal preference though! I have a lot of friends who have uploaded their whole album or shared their album as a link on their social media account! It's very much what you feel comfortable doing!

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