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Nikki
Devoted August 2020

Sexy time

Nikki, on September 22, 2019 at 12:59 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 11
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Do any of guys buy really nice lingerie thinking your man will want to (you know) but in return he just continues watching what ever is on tv. Yep just happened 😑 hopefully better luck on the honeymoon.

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  • Monique
    Master December 2019
    Monique ·
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    I’m so sorry this happened. I’m sure it does not feel good. Did you ask him about it? I know sometimes my fh is very quiet/seems distant when he had a super hard day at work. In reality he just doesn’t want to burden me with what had happened. Leaving work at work type thing. I’m sure the honeymoon will be much better. Has it ever happened before?
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  • Nikki
    Devoted August 2020
    Nikki ·
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    Not really, but also the stuff I did buy he just didn’t seem to much interested. Lol! He did say he liked but I think he was just to much into his show. Just frustrating.
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Ahah I don't think guys care for lingerie as much as we think.
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  • Andrea
    Super May 2020
    Andrea ·
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    Nope. My fiancé keeps our house cold af and I’m in sweats constantly haha.
    It’s not about the outfit it’s about the approach and the confidence. If you want him right then, make it known. Guys can be completely oblivious to the signs that we as women think are super obvious. One time, I wouldn’t worry about. If it’s a habit that he doesn’t pay attention to you or want sex as much as you do it definitely warrants a conversation before you get married. Very few couples already having sex have more sex after they get married 🤷🏼‍♀️ Something to think about
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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    I buy stuff I like and gets me all ready. That way if he is super into something and blows me off I’ll just hop in the metaphoric saddle and take things into my own ...well you know.
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  • Nikki
    Devoted August 2020
    Nikki ·
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    Thanks everyone for your inputSmiley smile he just stubborn at times lol. I was annoyed I buy some nice pieces and nothing. Lol it’s okay I will save them till the honeymoon 😁
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  • Andrea
    Super October 2019
    Andrea ·
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    Did you wear it for him while he was watching TV?
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  • Renee
    Super October 2020
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    Sometimes people can really get into their shows. (Guilty!) He probably didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I know that can be frustrating though.

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  • Julie
    Super February 2020
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    You're my favorite
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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    😂 Thanks 🙃🙃🙃
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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
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    If I need some... attention... and hes buried in his games or shows I will straddle his lap and block his view... games and shows can be paused. He likes it and has no problem telling is friends he's gotta drop the controller and he'll be back later, which is why I keep doing it, but if he seems to get irritated with it I'd let it go. Just like us ladies, sometimes its just not what he wants/needs at that moment.

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