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Corrin
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Sex break before wedding night

Corrin, on March 25, 2010 at 8:16 PM

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Hi All! I'm new here. This is my first time posting but I've been keeping up with the threads for a while now. I hope this question isn't too off the wall for everyone...My wedding day is a ways off but a little while ago I suggested to FH that maybe we should take a sex break before the wedding...

Hi All! I'm new here. This is my first time posting but I've been keeping up with the threads for a while now. I hope this question isn't too off the wall for everyone...My wedding day is a ways off but a little while ago I suggested to FH that maybe we should take a sex break before the wedding maybe a week or 2 so that the wedding night would be extra special becuz of not being with each other for a while. He thinks I'm bananas lol but i pretty much have my mind set on it. Anyone else thinking of doing this?

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  • Erin K
    Expert March 2010
    Erin K ·
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    We are doing about 3 days before....does that count? ceremonys tomorrow...we stoped wednesday...haha

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  • His better half... ;-)
    Super May 2010
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    Um... Maybe I'me an alien BUT I'm def not taking a break. I want it and I want it now!!! lol. We take enough breaks everytime he gets sent out to sea. I'm not going to take a voluntary break. I plan on taking a post ceremony sex break. Or maybe during the reception when I leave to change into my reception dress. I dunno but we're def not taking a break. More power to all of you who are going for it. I'll make sure I get enough for all of us! :-)

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  • Mrs. Carmack
    VIP June 2010
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    I dont know if he can do it but i think i can go a month! I think this is a good idea so that night of our wedding it will be extra fireworks! Smiley winkinglol

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  • His better half... ;-)
    Super May 2010
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    O BTW, we're not staying together the night before BUT I will be getting it the morning before lol. The bach parties will end as sleepovers with the bridal party so I wnt be able to get any the night before even if I tried. We will have a house full of people the full week before the wedding (including his mom whom I've never met) but I'm sure no one will be surpised about the fact that we have sex. I'm practicing keeping it down now in preparation for when we do have house guests lol

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  • Mrs. Carmack
    VIP June 2010
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    But as a read above we might just pass smooth out... anyone for a morning treat! lol

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  • Antoinette
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    We stopped a month before. It was alittle hard especially because we live together before the wedding. But i have to say it really went fast because of all the planning we were doing. I'm glad that's over!!

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  • Mrs. Carmack
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    LMAO.... guys I just texted my FH and asked him can he go a month without no sex,,,, NOTHING until the wedding night!!! and his reply was I DONT THINK SO!!!! I said come on it will make for an interesting wedding night! He said yea a SHORT wedding night! lol

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  • Mrs. F 2 Be
    Dedicated July 2010
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    LOL@Ms. Shay! I love it!

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  • Jackie
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    LOL @ Brandy. Yeah, I tried bringing it up with my FH and he looked at me like I was crazy!

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  • Mrs. Carmack
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    @ Jackie ... I was like ok so I guess thats a NO!! lol

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  • futuremrsmcdonald
    Devoted September 2010
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    I think that it's a wonderful idea to see if a break will make the honeymoon night more special and intimate. On the other hand, everytime I even mention taking a break to FH he acts as though I'm asking him to wait a year, although I know he thinks it will feel that long. i would like to have that extra spark of something special. kudos, to those who have tried and are succeeding.

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  • Aussie Bride
    Master February 2010
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    I never knew people did this. We have had so many times where we have gone weeks or months without so there was no way we were putting ourselves through that again lol. On our actual wedding night we didnt get to have sex because it was that time of month for me and I was in pure agony so I got tucked into bed and the next day he left for two weeks and than our vow renewal we were both so exhausted and my nausea from the pregnancy had set in so we didnt get to again lol. You really will be exhausted by the wedding night we didnt get to the hotel till 12pm and i just wanted to sleep lol so did my husband.

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  • Aussie Bride
    Master February 2010
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    Lol thanks unique yep our wedding nights just never go quite right lol.

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