Dedicated May 2019

Sex after Marriage

Blag, on November 6, 2019 at 10:28 PM Posted in Married Life 0 4
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Why doesn’t my bow husband seem as interested in sex...? I know football season started and all but even when we’ve tried recently it just doesn’t happen. It was good up until a month ago but right after we got back from our honeymoon we did it a lot and now it’s been like 3 weeks. The last two times we didn’t get through it. There are some issues that I don’t feel comfortable putting in detail here but why is this happening... ? We’ve only been married like 2 months. It was better when we weren’t married... I just went on a long walk feeling super sad and crying after we tried and he just wasn’t getting you know what. It used to get hard after a second. I also just feel like he’s just a Roomate now and that the honeymoon and marriage excitement ended way too quickly. Is something wrong? Is this normal for newly weds?


  • Yoice
    VIP March 2019
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    I personally can’t relate but sounds like maybe this is a health issue rather than the honeymoon stage being over. I would look for help from a doctor and maybe some therapy too. Think back to a month ago what could have trigger the change besides football season. A change in environment, work, stress, family issues. Sometimes small things trigger bigger things.
    Keep praying for your relationship and fighting for it. He’s not a roommate and go get your husband back.
    Good luck!
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    It could be stress related, that can really hinder arousal. Is he on any new medication? That can also cause some unwelcomed side effects.

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  • Mandee
    Dedicated September 2020
    Mandee ·
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    Did ya'll do pre-marital counseling? If not, perhaps check into that. It's def not normal.

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  • Rose
    Dedicated February 2020
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    It's probably health or stress related like the others said. Maybe he's a little depressed.

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