Hi there.
It is rare for me to disclose such a deeply personal dilemma. However, I have found the WeddingWire community to be such a strong source of comfort and support when applicable. I have recently been conflicted with the decision to either salvage a relationship with a family member or respectfully request to sever ties. She has burdened me with intense condemnation. She is considered to be a “born again” Christian. Being raised Roman Catholic regardless of being surrounded by tremendously supportive parents and several loving friends and family, it seems to me that unless I conform to her “acceptable” standards that she truly believes I don’t share an authentic relationship with God. This of course in numerous ways has caused me an abundance of distress. I am afraid I can no longer sustain a relationship with a family member who can’t respect boundaries (she believes they’re non-existent), who feels she is allowed to pass unsolicited judgement. She has proven time and again that she lacks empathy and she continuously reminds me that her beliefs are not up for debate. Ultimately, if I do sever ties, does this choice make me seem unchristian? Have any other couples encountered similar situations? Please share your thoughts.
Thank you for your support.
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