Several things

In our circles groomsmen do double duty as ushers. Though we may ask a couple college age cousins to act as ushers. They would be the same formality as the guests.


Anyone involved in the ceremony needs to get a thank you gift. Something not wedding related but fits their personal interests.

Our venue "ushers" guests to where the ceremony is and we're not having assigned sides, so we're skipping the traditional ushers, BUT most of the weddings I've been a part of, the ushers wore the same as the groomsmen, but maybe suspenders instead of a vest or some slight difference. I've seen them sat at the head table or just with the rest of the guests if a sweetheart table. And as PP said, anyone helping with the ceremony/wedding needs a thank you gift.

Hi Neanndra! We had two ushers for our wedding and here's what we did...

1) They wore black tuxes to match the groomsmen!

2) We did not have a head table (instead we split up our wedding party over several small round tables and interspersed them with their friends) - but if you have room at your head table for the ushers then I'd invite them to join you!

3) I think something small would be nice for your attendants!