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Chelsea
VIP June 2017

Seven months later and still no wedding video!

Chelsea, on February 2, 2018 at 2:58 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 13

Ok I need somewhere to vent..

I'm about to send a very angry email to my videographer, as I've watched her countless time throughout the past few months post wedding films on social media that took place after mine!! (So I creep the Bride/Groom to check out the wedding dates, lol who doesn't?!)

I sent her an email three weeks ago, politely asking how much longer until I could expect my video. My package and contract says highlight video will be 1-2 months, and full length film could take up to 6 months during peak season. I mentioned I hadn't even received the highlight video that was promised to me yet. She apologizes, says they were very busy this year, she'll have it completed within two weeks (now one week over that) and offer all of the raw footage for free.

What irks me is that one week prior to my wedding she let me know that she would not be the one to film our wedding. She was starting to grow her business and focus more on the editing side of the films. Ok, that's fine I guess, even though I originally hired her based on the fact that she'd be filming it. But then I notice she posts herself filming at weddings (very obviously high budget ones) !!!

Since then, I've tried to be patient as I watch her post all these high budget weddings and can't help but feel a little snubbed..almost like my wedding isn't good enough to take priority.

I want to send her message and just say WTF, but I'm also afraid if I do I'm going to get a crap quality video.. Or maybe I am anyway..I don't know.. I'm feeling pretty self conscious. Do you think I should say something again or wait a little longer?

13 Comments

Latest activity by Courtney, on April 9, 2018 at 7:52 AM
  • Mrs_Jenkins
    Devoted June 2018
    Mrs_Jenkins ·
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    Honestly,

    I'd just ask her again. Say hey, following up with you since the last time we spoke almost a month ago, where are we at on that video? I mean, that's a LONG time.


    But, kill her with kindness. I know it's easy to be frustrated, I would be too.

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  • Sarah
    Master June 2016
    Sarah ·
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    You should send her an email that says per her most recent correspondence you should have received it last week. If she does not get it to you by x date (set a deadline), you will be seeking legal action.

    Make mention of the timeline outlined in your contract and how far past that you are.
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  • Kelli
    Expert August 2018
    Kelli ·
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    I'd definitely contact her again, mention the timeline in the video and give her a timeline to give it to you. I would then have a lawyer draft something up stating an intent to sue if she still doesn't send it. If it's crap I'd sue without a doubt. Does your contract say she can have someone else film the wedding because otherwise she was already in breach of contact there.
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  • Kelli
    Expert August 2018
    Kelli ·
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    *timeline in the contract
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  • Nisa
    Super March 2019
    Nisa ·
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    Do this.
    It sucks that you have to resort to this, but people really change their tune the second you mention the law.
    What I would not do is spam her with angry reviews, posts, or anything like that. I'm not saying that you would, I'm saying that *I* would be tempted to do that and it's a bad course of action. Be super polite, but make it clear that you will take legal action if necessary. She's breaching her contract.
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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    Honestly, I think the time to be nice is over. Now is the time to call her out. Let her know that you've seen her post videos of weddings that came after yours. Direct her to the specific language of your contract and demand her compliance or you will be seeking legal recourse to force her compliance. Give her 2 weeks from the date of the letter to comply. Be "that" person. If she sends you a poor quality video, take her to smalls claim. While a lawyer can't represent you in small claims, they can help you build your case and guide you on how to present it (I do this often with my clients).

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  • lilchameleon
    Expert April 2019
    lilchameleon ·
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    Ohhhh I'm very concerned about why she didn't film it if you booked it with her. Red flag right there. If you tell someone you'll be the one to do the filming, then unless you have a medical emergency or family death, then it should be that person. I would definitely ask once more, and then if you don't receive it within a week, file in small claims court.

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  • July18Bride
    Super September 2022
    July18Bride ·
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    This seems quite unreasonable. I would just try and politely email her again... however... iy may be time to suit up for small claims court.... if that is what your contract says legally she has to do it.
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  • C
    Master July 2018
    Cuoghi ·
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    Call them or go to their business plaxe
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  • G
    Savvy October 2018
    George ·
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    I think I would wait until you finally receive something to say anything or post anything of a negative nature. If you get the video and it is great post that the video was great but the efficiency of service was not up to par. If the video is bad and the service was bad you should quietly find a lawyer to handle the issues for you.


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  • Malwen107
    VIP October 2018
    Malwen107 ·
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    Always refer back to your contract and state what was supposed to be delivered, when, and what was not. Remind her she is not complying with the contract, and if necessary you will take legal actions. That's why contracts exist!

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    Just Said Yes April 2017
    Courtney ·
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    We are about to celebrate our 1 year anniversary at the end of this month and our videographer has gone MIA. Instead of watching our video on our anniversary we will be taking him to small claims court! I feel your pain!
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