Sequel Wedding Guest List - Can we change it from the original?

I mean, you can invite whomever you want.

But, is this a reschedule or a vow renewal?

If it's a reschedule, there is a *little* bit of leniency, nowadays, as you may be going for something much smaller... but you do need to make that very clear to people who were originally invited, and been told you postponed.

If it's a vow renewal... you invite who is close to you, now.

I wouldn’t. I’d they declined once, I’d look at that as their answer. With everything going on with COVID, they should understand. It’s your wedding, do what you want.

I would actually re-invite them...there may have just been a date conflict with the original date, and considering they sent a gift, shows enough sentiment that they care.

Girl we are in the same boat. I had some relatives that responded and sent a wedding gift back in April for our original date. We are also trying to cut our guest list, but in my opinion if they sent a gift, or RSVP’d yes the last time, I think you should re-invite them. Or somehow let people know you had to alter your guest list due to everything going on. I’m sure they will be understanding if you tell them ahead of time.

Wow you got a gift along with your regrets, that’s very nice of them. All I got was a no and that was that. I would say if you are trying to cut down the list I would communicate that to all of the guests from the original list and then invite who you want. Due to what is going on they should understand. You could even create an A and B list and if you get rsvps from the A list and it doesn’t seem to be as much as you were hoping then invite some from the B list.

I honestly wouldn't bother. If they feel some type of way, just let them know you wanted it small this time and with the restrictions, you were unable to accommodate.