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Kat
Expert September 2019

September Brides!

Kat, on June 2, 2019 at 7:58 PM Posted in Planning 0 13
I am now in the double digits and slightly freaking out. It's a DW so I feel like I don't have control of a lot. Most everything is done but I'm getting hung up on the little details (decor, accessories, etc.) I feel like I need to buy everything but also feel a lot of it is unnecessary. Just taking deep breaths and one day at a time. I know it's going to be amazing no matter what. The nightmares have started too, which aren't helping. Everyone has told me I am the furthest from a bridezilla they have ever seen, I'm pretty laid back about a lot of the wedding stuff. Mini freakouts are definitely happening though. The stress has not been helping with my weight either (first fitting June 23 😬) Anyone else here with me???

Sorry for the long, rambling post. Just venting more than anything. On the bright side, about to buy all of our honeymoon excursions for our stay at Sandals St.Lucia! Hope planning is going well for everyone else!

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Latest activity by Kat, on June 4, 2019 at 7:55 AM
  • Jessica
    VIP October 2019
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    I'm in October and I totally feel you on all levels haha! So much left to do. St Lucia sounds amazing!!
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  • Kat
    Expert September 2019
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    Lol glad I'm not the only one but sorry you're stressing out too. They need a wedding planning support group Haha!
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  • VIP September 2019
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    I'm September 7th here and first dress appointment is June 11th. Stressing here and there over little things.
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  • Bre
    Dedicated September 2019
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    September 19th here and also a DW, not having control over certain things is nerve wracking but trying to stay positive and hope everything will turn out the way it's supposed to.
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  • Vicki
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Yes! I woke up at 4am the other day thinking about centerpieces and couldnt fall asleep for another hour. Trying to enjoy the process but the stress is real!
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    Oh I totally feel you. I am getting married in less than two weeks and yet I'm already changing my plans of certain things! It's like the more you think about certain things the more it makes you change your mind about it and next thing you know you changed your mind ahah.
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  • Kat
    Expert September 2019
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    Omg, girls! I wish we could all get together for a wine and vent night lol. I think it would be SO therapeutic! I'm glad to know we're all in this together
    Let's try not to stress and get through this together!!!
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  • Alyssa
    Beginner September 2019
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    Thankful to find this post! September 21st here and starting to feel overwhelmed with everything big and small.
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  • Ana
    Devoted September 2019
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    89 days here 😬 freaking out. Just found out Saturday that we have to make an unexpected trip 3 weeks before the wedding freaked out even more🙀 I just hope everything falls into place
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  • Furture Mrs. G
    Expert September 2019
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    I am September 14. I am stressed out for sooo many reasons. Trying to knock some pounds down before alterations in July. I had a dream last night about the wedding and the tables were decorated with purple decorations! It was a nightmare because that's not even close to my wedding colors lol! The stress is at a all time high right now. So nervous that not many people will show up either. I have been stressing about that a lot! Our guest list is at 200. So fingers crossed at least 150 show up.

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  • Kat
    Expert September 2019
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    Date twins! Sept.7th here too! It's SO close!!
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  • Kat
    Expert September 2019
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    Omg yes! I sent out the invites and I know the RSVPs don't just roll in automatically, and we have plenty of time, but I've gotten like 3 and I'm just stressing. I know it'll all be worth it, but geez!
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  • Kat
    Expert September 2019
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    I've looked up every checklist I can think of and have been using them to guide me. It's helped with the stress a little, because I know where everything lies on my timeline. I highly suggest it! Hang in there!
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