send reminder for rsvps or no?

Nope don't send a reminder, you told them by the 10th so they still have another week. If you don't hear from them by the 10th start calling them.

Do not post on Facebook. That is just rubbing it in peoples faces that aren't invited. I would make some calls or depending on your relationship with the guest, send a text. :-)

Its mostly fh family. So I'm not really close with any of them.

I wouldn't post anything on Facebook because I'm sure you have Facebook friends that weren't invited. FH did text a few friends that he knows are forgetful (only close friends) and said, "I hope you're able to make it!" to remind them, but only a few days before. Our RSVP deadline is tomorrow, but we'll wait until this weekend to start calling in case people mail them on the deadline.

Call or text them after the deadline.

Okay. I will text/ call or have fh after may 10th. Thanks ladies

Wait until the deadline then contact them. Maybe a private message through Facebook.

My RSVPs are due in 2 days and I've hardly gotten any back. I'm waiting until next week to start calling people. I think some people think the deadline is the day to put it in the mail. Or they're just rude-ass people who can't be bothered to grab a pen, check a box and seal and mail an addressed, stamped envelope... either way, give them a few days even after the 10th if you can.

Oh man those rsvp's are a pain in the rear.... my deadline is may 3rd as my wedding is may 10th, n i have sent friendly texts just letting them know i havent gotten their response n hopefully they will be joining us.

You see someone in passing, it can't hurt at this point to mention something, if the subject comes up organically.

My deadline is Saturday... We still have 100 people to hear from.

I recently sent our invites out (last Monday) and have received at least one RSVP a day, so I can totally feel for you to have only received 2, with your deadline approaching. Our deadline is May 31 and FH and I agreed that mid way to the date (May 15 ish) We will give people a call or text to remind them that the deadline is quickly approaching, and we HAVE to have an exact count. I def considered posting something on fb... and may still do so.. the only thing holding me back is like @allyson mentioned people have not received an invite may feel awkward or question you about receiving an invite.

Today was our due date and we are missing 13 RSVPs but are waiting until Monday to start calling/asking for them, we got a bunch yesterday and today, so I'm sure we'll get at least a few more by the weekend.

Ours are due this Friday and are still missing about 1/3. I made a facebook "invite" last Friday with the people who still hadn't responded as I know a few friends of mine never even received their invite (it was a private event so only those I included on it could see it, not just anyone). I just worded it as that just in case others had misplaced their invite or never received it to feel free to put their attendance in there. I also worded it so they knew they weren't being called out. Still only about half of the people responded to that At this point if they haven't responded by Friday and they show up to the wedding and their name isn't on a table assignment, I will not feel bad about it.

You can post wedding-related stuff on Facebook IF you create a custom list of wedding guests and specify that X post is only to post for those recipients on the custom list. See the aptly-titled: "How to talk about your wedding on Facebook without pissing people off" on Offbeat Bride.

I just set up my custom list on FB, and I've been posting things here and there about travel options since the vast majority of people will be traveling but it's too early to send out invitations. I think I'll also post stuff about this half/full marathon in the area since I have a decent amount of runners who will be attending. It's more casual than sending out an email, so it works for some topics. I think a friendly FB reminder would be fine on a custom list.

I'd wait a few days and then do calls and texts. I'm co-hosting my best friends baby shower and out of 20+ people, most didn't RSVP before the deadline.