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MIWM
VIP June 2019

Seeking Advice

MIWM, on June 11, 2019 at 6:24 PM

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So my wedding was June 8th everything was perfect and we had a lot of fun. My Husband's friend's girlfriend (who happens to be a Narcissist) Is extremely Jealous &Envious of me to the point where it's unhealthy and scary. This women has made up so many lies about me, Stalked me, and has tried to...

So my wedding was June 8th everything was perfect and we had a lot of fun. My Husband's friend's girlfriend (who happens to be a Narcissist) Is extremely Jealous &Envious of me to the point where it's unhealthy and scary. This women has made up so many lies about me, Stalked me, and has tried to steal my friends. Most recently she started stalking one of my friends on FB and keeps inviting her out for drinks. My friend does not like her and has been ignoring her Facebook message's. Fast-forward to my wedding. The Narcissist goes up to my friend and calls her out and says she never responded to my Facebook message's. My friend felt to uncomfortable so she walked away. The Narcissist was also standing really closely to my pregnant sister-in law and making her feel uncomfortable. The Narcissist also was talking to another one of my friends was being really creepy with her and she also told me she had an un easy feeling about her. I also found out that she was making snarky comments about our wedding. I have had little to no contact with this women for awhile since realized what kind of person she was. I had unfortunately had no choice but to allow her to come to my wedding since my husband and her boyfriend are really close. She is still my friend on Facebook and I'm at the point where I am sick of being cordial to this nutcase for the sake of my husbands friendship with her boyfriend. Seeking advice on weather I should delete her off of FB and cut off all contact with her completely.

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  • J
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    Judith ·
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    I think everyone here sympathizes, and feels that cutting her off is fine. Your husband can see his friend at non-couples things. And that boyfriend has got to know that she has problems. I doubt it will be a problem for him, but let husband handle it. You are not coming in between him and his friend. Most couples have some friend where except for a mandatory couples thing, the people have a friend they always see solo, so spouse does not have to deal with an unpleasant friend, or the SO of one.Two of hubby's family, one sister and one sister in law, are not welcome in our home. We are civil when we meet at other relative's homes, and my husband sees his brother, and the brother in law married to his miserable sister, because that guy was my husband's friend for 10 years before marrying in to the family. But we never do couples things together. The 2 women are loud, gossipy , and make loud racist and homophobic comments and slurs in a steady stream, tell the kids God will send them directly to hell because they are mixed race( us, and 2 other siblings are in mixed race marriages). The grandparents and parents won't disown this sister and sister in law, though , so we see they in passing sometimes. But everyone else sees how toxic they are, and no one blames us for excluding them. Including their own spouses.Brotger and brother in law have remained friends with hubby and I. Your husband should understand his need to see his friend, does not mean you have to tolerate the girlfriend.
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  • MIWM
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    MIWM ·
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    Nicole thank you so much for the advice. I cut off all contact with her. It was extremely unhealthy. Dealing with a Narcissist is draining.

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  • MrsJohansson
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    MrsJohansson ·
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    If she is a narc then you know the first step is to cut her off social media. Delete and block. Make yourself boring to her.
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