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Jade
Expert November 2021

Second guessing my dress.

Jade, on September 15, 2019 at 2:15 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 7
So I got a dress today (at my first appointment) and I am second guessing it. What I’m worried about is that it is very unique (not what I was planning on at all), and I am wondering if I was maybe influenced by my sister, mom, and the store owner who just obsessed over the dress. I was really really stuck between 2 dresses and I loved the top of one and the skirt of the other and they could’ve customized it but there might’ve been an issue with the coloring. So I got the one that I loved the skirt. It’s a plain dress but i bought a cape (instead of a vail) and I’m worried it’s just too different. It will either be a “wow look at that” dress or a “why in the world did she pick that”dress. It also didn’t help that I went back to look at the pictures and the pictures are just awful because the dress was 8 sizes too big and they had a really hard time clipping it. I’m going to attach the link from the designers website. I’m just wondering if anyone thinks it’s just too different. Or opinions and advice. Just for reference I’m getting married on Nov 21 of next year and my reception is in a mansion. We’re going for very romantic with lots of candles, fire places, etc.

This is the dress: https://www.divine.ro/wedding-gowns/avissa/

This is the cape (In the second photo): https://www.divine.ro/wedding-gowns/samira/

7 Comments

Latest activity by Jade, on September 15, 2019 at 11:15 PM
  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
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    I think the top of that dress is stunning!!! Very soft, delicate and romantic!
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  • Megan
    Super October 2020
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    I agree! It’s unusual but beautiful!
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  • Jennifer
    Super September 2020
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    You will never please everyone. This is one of those times where, as long as you are happy, no one else's opinions matter. It's your wedding day. Don't worry about living up to other people's expectations.

    The dress and Cape are beautiful for what you just described as the atmosphere of the wedding.
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  • Amber
    Super September 2020
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    Dress is beautiful I think and maybe everyone's opinions are clouding your desicion about the dress. At end of the day you'll be wearing it nobody else will be so your opinion and how you feel in the dress that's all that truly matters in the end.
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  • Meghan
    Devoted April 2020
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    I think this dress goes perfectly with the theme you said you are going for. It looks super romantic to me! It’s very pretty! I don’t think it looks too different at all.
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  • Annie
    Dedicated October 2020
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    This dress so SO pretty. I really like it. My dress is totally different too, it’s not even white. The first time I put it on my sister was with me and she made a funny face... and it made me feel really bad. So I went back without her and fell in love all over again and bought it. Your wedding is about you and your husband, nobody else. If you are happy and comfortable with it and love it, then screw em. It’s a beautiful dress. And the cape is super cool. It really goes with what you’re going for. I LOVE IT! Don’t doubt yourself.
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  • Jade
    Expert November 2021
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    Thanks everyone for the replies!! I went back to retry it on and it’s totally the dress
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