This may be more of me venting my frustration than advice really needed.
I’m working on my seating chart and my FMIL is telling where to put people and which table to put them at. I understand the putting people together but not at which tables. I’m doing that part. I feel like this is the one part I get to do without input from everyone. So now she’s stressing me out about it.
Working on a seating chart is hard enough but to feel like I have no say in it is super frustrating