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Angela
Just Said Yes October 2020

Seating for all or not

Angela, on May 11, 2020 at 11:41 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 14

Hi all! I am going back and forth on whether or not to have enough seating at the reception for everyone to sit at one time or not? We have booked a venue that will be outdoors and just not sure if we really need seating for all or enough for ~75% of the people? After our ceremony we will be having a cocktail hour with high top tables. catering is a buffet so was thinking out guests could eat as they please and not all at once. Thoughts????

14 Comments

Latest activity by Pirate & 60s Bride, on May 13, 2020 at 1:02 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Every butt needs a seat. Unless your caterers have agreed to stay all night, everyone is going to eat at one time.
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  • T
    Super October 2020
    Trisha ·
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    Id Say Have Enough Seating For All Your Guests, To Prevent Not Having ENOUGH.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    You need enough seats at the off chance that everyone IS eating at once.

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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    I’ve never seen anything other than people eating dinner all at once at a wedding.
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  • Julie
    Savvy September 2020
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    Recently my nephew & his wife choose not to have seating for all guests. They assumed folks would dance, mingle and chat at the high tables - WRONG! It was very uncomfortable as you either had to eat standing up or steal someone’s seat! Please provide each of your guest a seat.
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  • Natalie
    Super November 2020
    Natalie ·
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    Absolutely yes! You cannot expect people to have to stand around while others eat, stand to eat, or eat at a table that’s already dirty. People will need somewhere to set their drink, jacket, purse, etc. Another thing to consider is that unless you are doing a seating chart of some sort, you will most likely need extra seating to ensure couples or families are able to sit together.
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  • Melanie
    Savvy March 2020
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    We recently went to a wedding where there were not enough tables and seats for everyone at the reception. It was awkward and we left soon after the reception started without eating. We didn't want to stand around awkwardly trying to eat and hold a drink. And of course if someone had a seat at a table they weren't going to give it up after they finished eating. They had a few high top tables and a few regular tables but not near enough for all the guests. If the buffet opens up, everyone will want to eat at the same time and everyone will need a seat. Otherwise people will end up leaving before the reception even gets started. It just makes everything super uncomfortable for your guests. Please have plenty of seats for all your guests.

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  • Angela
    Just Said Yes October 2020
    Angela ·
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    Thank you all for the in sight. My FH and i haven't been to too many weddings and hearing other people thoughts certainly help!!! Smiley smile

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    Yes, everyone needs a seat! I have been to weddings where every guest did not have a seat and it is very tacky and rude.

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  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
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    Definitely get enough chairs for every person to sit at the same time
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    Definitely get enough seats. My work holiday parties are always like this... they assume not everyone will want to sit at once and they have like half the chairs for the amount of people that are there. It is soo uncomfortable and awkward. You always end up spending half the evening looking for a seat
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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    Yes, everyone needs a seat

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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Seating for 100% *always*
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Every seat needs a seat. 😁
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