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Rachel
Savvy June 2018

Seating charts.. thoughts?

Rachel, on February 8, 2017 at 11:44 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 35

How do you guys feel about seating charts for 150 guest wedding? Pros cons?

35 Comments

Latest activity by Futuremrswhite, on February 9, 2017 at 4:59 PM
  • Nicole
    VIP June 2017
    Nicole ·
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    Do it. At least assign tables. You don't want 150 people running around trying to figure out where to sit.

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  • Samantha
    VIP June 2017
    Samantha ·
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    We will have 150-180 people and are definitely doing a seating chart with table assignments.

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  • Punkin Beer
    Master October 2017
    Punkin Beer ·
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    No question, seating charts or assigned tables are a must.

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
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    What would be a con to a seating chart?? I never understand that.

    You definitely need one. I can't imagine the clusterfuck that would ensue if it were just a free for all for 150 people.

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  • Punkin Beer
    Master October 2017
    Punkin Beer ·
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    Also, slow down making new posts. You have at least 3x right now on the front page. This is considered rude as it hogs the forum.

    The search bar is your friend!

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  • ChemEBride
    Savvy January 2018
    ChemEBride ·
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    I agree on assigned tables. It's a pain, but I heard a horror story from one of my friends today. At her wedding, she didn't assign seats or tables or anything. One of her cousins ended up eating in the stairwell with her kids because there weren't enough seats left all together. I don't think anyone wants that.

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  • Shannon
    Super May 2017
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    Must have! As PP said, without it you're risking a clusterfuck

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  • Natasha
    VIP January 2017
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    I had about 150 people and we did not do a seating chart nor assigned tables. It went rather smoothly no one was scrambling looking for seats.

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
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    Well then Natasha that's the exception, not the rule.

    OP, I sat alone at my brother's wedding because they didn't assign tables. Don't let that happen to your friends and family.

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  • Del
    Master November 2017
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    It's definitely a good idea. Otherwise families get split up when there aren't enough seats and people end up drifting around in search of somewhere to sit.

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  • Colleen
    Super April 2018
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    I would. I went to a friends wedding with no seating charts, and it was hectic. As another poster mentioned, I sat at a table with a few people who I didn't know. It was rather uncomfortable.

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  • Seth'sGirl
    Expert August 2017
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    Both of my cousins had large weddings like yours and did not do a seating chart. It went very smoothly and no one had any issues finding seating. I've also gotten advice from some past friends who have done them, and they say it didn't really make a difference and if they could go back, they wouldn't spend the time on it.

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  • Rachel
    Savvy June 2018
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    Thank you everyone.

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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated September 2017
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    I'm the odd one out. But I'm not doing a seating chart. I also have 150ish guests. We'll have reserved tables for family and that's it. I se all over that it's a bad idea not to have one because it's "too much like middle school cafeteria" but this isn't middle school. We're adults and we can sit next to strangers with a mutual connection no problem. I've never been to a wedding with a seating chart, and never had a problem with it.

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  • Meagen
    VIP October 2017
    Meagen ·
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    Definitely do a seating chart.

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  • M
    VIP March 2017
    Miss S. ·
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    Absolutely necessary! Take the guess work out of the equation and assign tables.

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  • LolliPOP
    Super May 2017
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    I have the same amount of guest and will be doing a seating chart. I don't want my guest running around or couples split up. Pros: your guest will be seated without a hassle. Cons: making the chart. Overall: totally worth it!

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  • melanie
    Master August 2017
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    I think you should do one, I hate scrambling around with heels and a dress on to find a seat for me and FH, it's awkward and uncomfortable and makes me bitchy LOL

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  • AlwaysMs.
    VIP May 2018
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    There are no cons, only pros. I went to a 60 person wedding without one and it was a mess. People dragging chairs around, one table with only one couple at it, conservative family members sitting with partying friends. Hot mess.

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
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    Necessary. Otherwise you end up with people split up, saving seats, and asking each other if they can sit like they're in middle school again.

    It's so much nicer with assigned tables!

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