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Just Said Yes October 2019

Seating chart or no seating chart??

Mikaela, on August 27, 2019 at 11:07 PM Posted in Planning 0 17
I can’t decide!! What are the pros and cons of having a wedding seating arrangement, place tags, table numbers, the whole nine yards?

I sorta just felt lazy and like I’ve done so much already and just didn’t wanna deal with it lol but is it worth it?

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Latest activity by Caitlin, on August 28, 2019 at 2:37 PM
  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    At the very least, I would assign people to tables instead of seats. A seating chart is really worth the time to create! You can help guests avoid mass chaos and confusion

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I'm all for assigned tables. Makes it a bit more orderly
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  • Da Mom
    August 2022
    Da Mom ·
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    Just attended a wedding last Sunday with no seating chart. At least 250 guests were there. When it was announced to sit anywhere, it was like the running of the bulls to scramble for seats, and then I moved at least 5 times while we all tried to get situated. Please assign tables!!

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    100000% seating chart.
    Pros: More cost efficient. No seating chart means that you will need to provide 20% more tables, chairs, place settings, etc. as guests don’t seat themselves efficiently. Less awkward for guests. Households won’t have to split up.
    Con: You have to do an extra hour of work.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I’m totally for assigned tables.
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  • Megan
    VIP January 2019
    Megan ·
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    ASSIGN TABLES!
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  • Tanya
    Dedicated November 2019
    Tanya ·
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    My brother and sister in law did not do a seating chart. It became awkward because people came in and selected tables in he front without thinking about the family. The family table ended up being in the back. Since the parents paid for it all it would have been nice had they at least been up front to see stuff. Totally up to you though. Maybe just assign tables and people can pick their seats. That’s what we’re doing.
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  • Jeanie
    Super February 2020
    Jeanie ·
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    If you are doing sit down meals, you should probably assign tables to minimize chaos. Your venue may actually require this. We are doing a cocktail reception, so we will not be doing table assignments. We didn’t want a big, elaborate anything for our wedding, so we opted to go this route. However I do know that if we were doing a sit down meal, even if it was a buffet, we would be required to have table assignments.
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  • Kim
    Super September 2019
    Kim ·
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    I am only assigning tables. This would prevent total chaos during the reception time.

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  • Christina
    Dedicated October 2021
    Christina ·
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    If you’re having under say 50 guests, you MAY be able to get away with it. But anything over that I would say definitely seating chart or table assignments at least! People have a way of leaving a single extra seat here and there, forcing guests who came together to either split up, or awkwardly ask people to move around.
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  • L
    Dedicated October 2020
    Lisa ·
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    Please atleast assign tables.
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  • Sara
    Super October 2019
    Sara ·
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    Please assign tables - it's awful to scramble for seats at a wedding, especially if you don't really know anyone not actually *in* the wedding. Sure, it's a little more work for you, but it's totally worth it for your guests.

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  • N
    Master January 2015
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    I asked this same question yesterday and I was very quickly converted to #TeamSeatingChart lol. We will definitely be assigning tables, I didn't even think about the extra seating we'd need to avoid groups getting broken up.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I am not a fan of weddings without seating charts. At least assign tables, if you don't want to assign seats. If you don't have a seating chart, you have to plan for extra tables & chairs since people won't seat themselves efficiently. Plus it's awkward for guests that don't know other guests to just walk up and sit down with someone.

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  • Nadine
    Dedicated September 2019
    Nadine ·
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    Definitely need a seating chart. My FH family are not all on the best terms with each other so I made a seating chart to avoid any conflict.

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    Lady ·
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    Assign tables!

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  • C
    Dedicated October 2019
    Caitlin ·
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    Agree with previous posters -- at least assign tables. That's what we're doing. The only wedding I attended without a seating chart...we couldn't find seats together (me and two friends) so we actually left before the reception started. We would've all been stuck sitting at three separate tables. Save your guests the trouble, honestly.

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