How much say are you giving your families on the seating chart?
Our parents are each roughly paying for half of the wedding. What I’ve been invisioning is us with our bridal party at the head table, then each set of parents at their own table right in the front with other VIPs. My parents would sit with my moms siblings and their significant others (who I’m all very close to. My FH is lucky enough to have all four of his grandparent (I don’t have any). I’d really like his grandparents sitting up front with his parents. We have a great relationship with them and I feel they deserve the special treatment of being up front and getting served first, etc.
FHs mom keeps telling us she’ll help with the seating chart when it’s time because she has requests. Apparently one particular guest (random family friend who I’ve never met) doesn’t know anyone else and has requested to sit by the grandparents, which FMIL keeps telling us. However we want them up front at the “vip” table . Also other guests are telling her who they don’t want to be by.
I dont know how to handle the situation. FH and I have no ambitions of having the seating chart be a family project. And I personally feel that people can only have their assigned tables during dinner, then have all night to mingle with whoever they want.
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