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Kimberly
Just Said Yes September 2020

Seating assignments amid covid

Kimberly, on July 13, 2020 at 1:43 PM Posted in Planning 1 9
My fiancé and I have cut our wedding invite list from 180 down to 64 of our closest friends and family for our Sept. 12th wedding. We also moved it to be outside in my parents backyard, changed our meal from a buffet to a food truck, and are doing individually wrapped cookies for dessert - all in an effort to be Covid-conscious. We weren’t going to do seating assignments, but now I’m wondering if that would be more responsible and we try to keep people together who will more than likely be together anyways... like keep all of my friends together who will be socializing more that weekend and keeping his friends together. What do y’all think?

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Latest activity by Caitlin, on July 14, 2020 at 1:21 PM
  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
    Margaret ·
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    My wedding is a month after yours and I was debating the same thing. I'm still leaning and moving forward with letting them choose where they want to sit. Family will sit with family likely and friends with friends. They're adult, they know where to go. LOL... At least in my opinion.

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  • Kerin
    Super February 2021
    Kerin ·
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    I'm having small, round tables that only allow 8 people and providing a couple more than would traditionally be needed based on the head count so people can spread out more, but I'm currently planning on only assigning the seats for our parents and the little kids (because we have a table just for them with their own activity bags, in which contents will vary a little by age).

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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
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    We’re getting married the same day! We are assigning seats just like you posted- FH’s friends at one table, my friend at one table, and by family group. Our tables have anywhere from 4-8 people depending. Our reception venue is requiring it due to the restrictions from the health department, and the tables are pretty much how we imagine people would group themselves anyways.
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I highly recommend assigning seats. I am pro assigned seats under normal circumstances, but especially with a pandemic. You don't want guests move chairs and having too many people at one table.

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  • Caitlyn
    Beginner September 2021
    Caitlyn ·
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    I hadn’t even thought of this, great question!
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  • Eri
    Super October 2020
    Eri ·
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    We're getting married in October and were planning on doing assignments even before all this, but we are definitely proceeding with a seating chart. I'm going to do my best to seat households together - or groups of households who regularly see each other anyway.

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  • Samantha
    Savvy May 2020
    Samantha ·
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    I think table assignments is a fantastic idea. It helps people to know where to sit, you know they'll be with people they can socialize with. They won't have to worry about having nobody to talk to. You also can make sure the people who are closest to you, sit closest to you. Also, yeah, the COVID stuff.

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  • VIP August 2020
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    Assigning seats is always a good idea so you don't end up with random empty spaces and people wandering around looking for them.
    With COVID I think it's even more important. It also allows you to keep people you're more worried about separate from others and you can put people who already spend time together/have a similar comfort level together.
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  • Caitlin
    Beginner September 2020
    Caitlin ·
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    I am pro assigned seats even before Covid! My wedding is about the same size of yours and I am assigning seats as well. It also will give people reassurance that they will be with people they are more comfortable being sat with - I listed this as one of the precautions we are taking to reassure people we are thinking about everything and keeping safety a top priority!

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