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amandal0514
Devoted March 2016

Seating Arrangements for Small Reception?

amandal0514, on January 21, 2016 at 4:56 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 14

Having a small informal ceremony and reception with about 50 guests. Mostly family and a few friends on FH's side and mostly friends and a few family members on mine.

With that many people, and only 6 tables, I wondered if you'd normally do seating arrangements or just let it be?

Don't have a situation where anybody dislikes anyone but there will be a few who only know 1 or 2 others there.

14 Comments

Latest activity by Kaegurl, on January 21, 2016 at 9:39 PM
  • EmilyJ
    VIP May 2016
    EmilyJ ·
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    Same boat. But 9 tables, i figured a seating arrangement would not take that long to do, and it will just be so much less stressful for the guests.

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  • mandybeth
    Super August 2017
    mandybeth ·
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    I have a small guest list as well and wasn't going to do a seating chart. I may change my mind though, I'm far out still..

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  • N
    Master November 2015
    NenaBear ·
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    We assigned tables for our 33 guests. No need to go as far as assigning seats IMO.

    Edit: I wasn't going to bother with this until we realized that we had a couple of guests that wouldn't know anyone else in attendance other than us. One being in her 80s. I couldn't imagine her roaming around like the new kid at school trying to find a spot to sit. It took 10 min and will save your guests the hassle.

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  • Jeanne
    Master August 2015
    Jeanne ·
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    Assign tables. Even with that few, it can still be confusing not having assigned tables.

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  • Niki
    Master June 2016
    Niki ·
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    Assign tables. Without assignments of some kind, you'll need more tables/chairs than guests to account for people seating themselves in odd configurations, and you run the risk of people feeling awkward and left out trying to find seats, particularly if they dont know many other guests.

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  • mandybeth
    Super August 2017
    mandybeth ·
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    Has anyone had an issue with guests not liking who they were seated with and taking it into their own hands to seat themselves elsewhere? I ask because I feel I may have some guests who would try to pull this due to immaturity and not realizing there is a reason and science behind them being assigned a table

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  • amandal0514
    Devoted March 2016
    amandal0514 ·
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    So for assigning just tables and not specific seats do you just make one of those 1 page things and put numbers on the tables?

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  • .
    Master October 2013
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    You can. We did name tags with their table number on them that they picked up on the way in and then found their table.

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  • amandal0514
    Devoted March 2016
    amandal0514 ·
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    Never thought of doing name tags but that's a great idea

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  • Bride2b
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    Bride2b ·
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    My wedding is similar to yours, 40 people and 6 tables. No need to have a seating chart and table numbers. I am just having place cards already arranged at the seats at the tables. This way as guest come in they can find their seat accordingly. This avoids any awkwardness and the odd empty seat here and there which would cause the need for people to shuffle to have couples sit together.

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  • Reggie
    Master September 2015
    Reggie ·
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    Personally, I think it's always best to assign tables. You don't have to assign specific seats if you don't want to but assigning tables makes everyones lives easier. Plus, without table assignments you need more tables.

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  • Sunni
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    Sunni ·
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    We will only have seven tables and we're assigning tables.

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    Expert November 2015
    DRGCAS ·
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    I would suggest assigning tables. People like order. There's nothing more uncomfortable than looking for an empty seat.

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  • Kaegurl
    Master June 2014
    Kaegurl ·
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    We had 45 and assigned tables.

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