Is it proper etiquette to allow the Groom's mother to choose/set the tables for all of the people on her side of the family? I've never heard of this before, and of course I would be asking her input since she knows her family best with people getting along, but I have a big family and we may need to merge some tables so that we don't have random tables of 5 and then tables of 8 and tables of 10.
I was thinking of putting some of our older cousins from both sides, at a table together, but she wants to decide where they all sit. Is that normal?
Thanks!