My friend's wedding is next month. We met in high school and have been friends for a long time. However, the last time she saw me I was 175lbs. I am now 217lbs. I was diagnosed with PCOS, depression, anxiety, and ADHD recently. COVID made matters worse for me so I gained ALOT of weight. I started going to therapy and losing weight has been a big challenge.
I am ashamed of how I look, and I am scared of what her family, fiance, family, and friends will say. My friend is picking me up from the airport and she also saw me at 175 lbs last time I saw her. I am scared to get judged by people. Her fiance (he's very judgy), and her sisters and mom (also very judgy), I don't know what to do. Every time I lose weight or gain weight, they'll make comments about it. I haven't seen them in 2 yrs so the thought of getting bullied is scary to me.
As a maid of honor, I've already planned her bachelorette party and will be flying from out of state for the wedding. My friends don't know about my weight gain since I hide it on social media. Seriously thinking about making up an excuse just so I don't deal with the bullying