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Destanee
Beginner May 2022

Scared no one will show

Destanee, on May 16, 2022 at 12:32 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 6
Hi all!! My wedding is in just a few days and I don't know why I'm having this anxiety of no one coming. We have a 150 guests mostly family that have RSVP'd but idk why I'm worried that most still won't come and I'll spend all this time and money for nothing. I am also terrified no one will have a good time. My timeline is normal wedding stuff with exception of a couple things we aren't doing a garter toss etc. Idk why this fear has hit me. I'm just so worried that I've spent all this time and money into my wedding for it to not turn out fabulous. I'm soe excited to marry my person but we paid for this wedding ourselves and am getting this fear. Has anyone else felt like this? Definitely feeling the anxiety.

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Latest activity by Sloane, on May 17, 2022 at 10:07 AM
  • Erin
    Super May 2022
    Erin ·
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    Mine is in a few days as well (May 21st)! I definitely feel you there. I’m really excited to marry my FH, but I’m so nervous about everything going ok! I freaked out a few days ago about the weather because it was supposed to rain (our first look will be outdoors) but I had to come terms with that being something I can’t control. We will get through it! Take lots of breaths and remind yourself how awesome your FH is and that whoever is there are the ones that love and support you the most!
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  • Michael
    Rockstar October 2023
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    It is near impossible for people not to have a good time attending a wedding. The wedding formats remain pretty consistent because they have proven their effectiveness. The families will love you and your FH and make it all work out.

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  • Paige
    VIP October 2022
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    I'm sure a lot of that is because you've planned and done all that you can, so now that you don't have anything to do, the ball is in someone else's court, so to speak, and that's out of your hands. People enjoy weddings, seeing their friends and family, and they want to be there to support you. It'll be great Smiley smile

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  • Lauren
    Savvy July 2022
    Lauren ·
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    I understand how you’re feeling. I’m anxiously waiting for response cards to come in for my wedding, and we’ve only received 22 and we are inviting 150 guests as well. I’m getting married in a couple months, and I have this fear of some of my closest friends not being able to come. I hope they will though, and I wish you all the best and hope all your guests come to your wedding.
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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2022
    Taylor ·
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    I totally get it! My wedding is in October and I’m nervous most people won’t rsvp especially since it’s 4 hours away. And even if they do I’m nervous they still won’t come!
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  • Sloane
    Super May 2022
    Sloane ·
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    Normal to worry but if you have done your due diligence with invites and RSVPs I can’t see anyone not showing up. If people don’t then trust that the people who are there are the ones that should be there.
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