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Save the Dates

Molly, on June 26, 2019 at 5:22 PM Posted in Planning 0 10
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Hi Wedding Wire world!

I am getting married March 28, 2020 and having my bridal shower October 19th 2019. We're having the bridal shower early so that snow and holidays don't interfere! With that said, when do you think I should send out my save the dates?


  • VIP September 2019
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    Not sure of proper etiquette but I like to send them early so August or September for STD and January for invitations. I would think bridal shower invites could go out 3 or 4 weeks after STD.
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  • Nikki
    Devoted August 2020
    Nikki ·
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    My wedding is a week before yours and I sent std in the middle of June
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  • Wendy
    Super August 2020
    Wendy ·
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    Mine is August 2020 and I’ll be sending mine middle of July...
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    Hey date twin.
    Your shower date was my first pick. But I just couldn't do it.
    That being said, for our March 28th wedding, I'm sending out Save the Dates on July 15th.
    Invitations out somewhere in the Jan 19-27 date.
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  • Christine
    Dedicated April 2020
    Christine ·
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    For my wedding April 4th I'll be sending mine in August. But already have them written out and sealed , ready to go !!
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  • Erica
    Dedicated March 2020
    Erica ·
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    Mine is on March 6 and I’m sending mine out in the middle of July
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    We sent ours 10 months out since we had so many out of state guests. I'd send them out anywhere 6-12 months out!

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    This is my guess
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  • Vennessa
    Beginner March 2020
    Vennessa ·
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    Oh good I doing the same. My wedding date is March 7th 2020.
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  • Merline
    Super February 2020
    Merline ·
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    My date is a month before yours! We are sending our save the dates next week when we get back from vacation.
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